too much attention vs too little attention..
Ok so I have always said that I like a lot of attention when it comes to being in a relationship now I find myself fending off the attentions a gentleman who I have only known for about a week and he has joking referred to himself as my husband TWICE! I had to tell him today that I thought that it was inappropriate and asked him not to make that joke anymore because it makes me uncomfortable. He apologized and promised to not do it any more. So anyway I am feeling less and less attracted to him each passing day.
On the other hand I have a friend who I have known for years and spent some quality time with a few weeks ago. Now in the beginning I wasn't sure if I wanted to go any further with him and was just a little curious as we have flirted back and forth since I was 15. This guy is always on the road for work and is NEVER available when I want him to be. So why have I become more and more attracted to him even though I am agitated at the same time by his unavailability.
what's wrong with me.....there has to be a happy medium somewhere!
yeah, there's a happy middle ground there somewhere. when you find it, let me know cuz i want to create my perfectly blended man, too.
ReplyDeleteHe's out there. Just use these two experiences to finetune exactly what it is that you want and need from a man in terms of attention.
ReplyDeletethat's the worst! are you just turned off from his "husband" references as opposed to who he is as a whole? maybe you want to have a heart to heart with him about where he's coming from before you write him off altogether. after all, there must have been something you saw in him for you to start this, right?
ReplyDeleteHmmmm!!!
ReplyDeleteAgree with Rusetta. and Nikki. Also, I think it's human nature that we desire a challenge or we fight more for something we really want and don't have. Then when we have it and get too much of it, we loose interest.....
.......and there's the perfect blend.....when the attention is desired......it's wanted and given in the proper amounts ;)
So, are you going to have a date with your hubby or not? Inquiring minds want to know.
ReplyDeletenope..not gonna go out with him. it just doesnt feel right.
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